Why do i watch gay porn if im straight
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Reader Turned On By Gay Porn writes,
I’m a 45 year old professional male married with kids. My wife and I lead a normal/conventional comfortable experience, go to church on Sundays, remain physically fit, and are both attractive. About 5 years ago I began having fantasies about women (any women, my wife, her friends, random women) getting turned on by gay male or male/male/female sex scenes. Although I understand why women find two attractive men having sex a shift on, I’m perplexed as to why I get so turned on by it?
I don’t uncover men physically attractive at all, but I find myself watching gay porn and masturbating to the idea of a single chick, or group of women watching me be sexually oppressed by other men. Nothing turns me on more. I won’t go into all the details, but you obtain the idea. What is wrong with me? I’ve never heard of any other guys experiencing this. Not to mention, if my wife ever initiate out it would probably send her into a tail-spin. I’m so embarrassed, but I’m terrified that she’s going to find out and assume I’m gay, she’s not attractive eno
Gay and vertical pornography addiction
user9201
Iam a 16 years old guy so it startex at age 13 watching straight porn and at 14 i started getting addicted to watch lgbtq+ porn also and wanting to own sex (gay or straight) iam actually straight so iam now trying to stop this addiction so i dont become gay
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TMAC2
Good morning,
2 things.
There are TONS of people on here who are battling porn addiction, so I’m hoping you spot the support you need. If you use the magnifying glass icon in the top right, you can seek for existing threads related to your specific struggle or addiction. Tons of wisdom and suggestion here on virtually every addiction.
Secondly, and I mean this in the most helpful way doable – perhaps regard therapy. Not just to help with your addiction, but also to maybe help understand and clarify your sexuality. In your teen years there is a lot of questioning and uncertainty that can occur around our identities, including our sexual identities. Experimenting etc can be part of that, which could explain the various types of stuff you’re looking at. But it might not.
However, I want to say that one does not “become gay”, especially as a result o
Does watching gay porn make you gay?
I have a question for you but I would prefer to remain anonymous. I'm just gonna be straightforward and ask away. I am a longtime watcher of porn, I enjoy it very much and, for some reason, I'm able to acquire off to gay porn. I know that I'm not attracted to men in real life at all. So my doubt is: Is it normal for a straight male to do this?
— Anonymous
Dear Anonymous,
So, in a recent episode of "Family Guy" (pants down, the funniest show on TV), Peter Griffin summarizes his daughter's Christian abstinence program: "Premarital sex turns unbent people gay and gays into Mexicans. Everybody goes down a notch."
My point, and I accomplish have one, is that I don't think you're slipping down a notch in Peter's eyes. It would be easy to think you're so far into the closet that you're crowding out the skeletons, but I don't think that's the case.
You only have to see the very true phenomenon of lesbians who watch gay porn to see my point. They don't watch it for the men; they see it for the dominance dynamics that they can bring in to their own beds.
For example, masculinity turns on many lesbians. They want to see it, emulate it and ap
I remember one night when a group of us were out for drinks, and I met this straight guy. He totally knew that I wanted him and seemed to enjoy that fact, so I decided to examine the waters by hitting on him, and since the art of flirtation is lost on the gay community, I probably said something like, “Would you like a blowjob?”
He shut me down right away, then said, “But if you ever execute porn, send me the link!” I don’t perceive why I was more stunned that a straight-identifying guy wanted to see gay porn than the fact that he mind I might one time be in it, especially since my own style in porn is more varied than my actual sexual experiences. I predominantly watch straight porn (imagining I’m the lucky bitch), so is it really so shocking that vertical men might find something that turns them on by watching gay sex?
A Reddit user with the name father_figa asked the 160,000 subscribers to the reddit thread AskMen, “Do any straight guys survey gay porn as a fetish rather than an aspect of your sexual orientation?” and the anonymous confessions started rolling in. The Gaily Grind has compiled a collection of revelations from straight men who just really wish to “watch a guy rai
I’m not a queer but
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I’m 27 guy straight , I always watch porn while masturbating. Two year ago I got bored of normal porn so I started watching gay porn I liked it then I started chatting men masturbating together and even I played in my ass and it’s so sexy
But I have never get attracted to men.
I stopped watching gay porn and I got a girlfriend we enjoy so much together but It is sometimes difficult to me to get tough and sometimes difficult to keep hard if I didn’t take a medication otherwise if I watched gay porn I acquire hard rock in one second
I am a enormous guy and I haven’t had sex with men before and I don’t want, I just touch like I have a brain blockers and I can’t solve this!!
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Can anyone help me??
Anyone had the same experience?
shared-gold-slug3
Hey
Sexuality is a scary thing, and something that is sometimes difficult to get your head around! The important thing is that you don’t call for to label things, and it’s often more fluid then what people often think.
Some people like men, some people like women and some people love everyone. There might be days where you experience more attracted to your girl